Is every man like this???? please help.?

Sorry to say, but yes. The important thing is he goes home with you. Is it the fact that he looks or that he is trying (miserably) to lie about it? If it just that he is lying then don't ask about it, or if you do don't be judgemental about it. And the truth is in his mind he isn't looking at other girls, at least not how he looks at you. Be happy at least you know he is still alive. A wise man once said "being married is like being on a diet, it's ok to look in the candy store, but you must not go in" BRUTAL